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Compassionate Coding

One of my final San Diego sunsets… for now. More on that below.

In today’s issue:

  • Impact beyond data

  • A personal announcement

  • Compassionate tech resources from around the web

Impact Beyond Data

In a recent conversation with the CTO of a fitness app company, I shared a story about managing organizational change on one of my past teams. I mentioned that one of the signs of success was a heartfelt comment from a long-time employee about how I anticipated and guided the team through the emotional stages of the change, which was a dimension the organization had completely ignored previously. This employee was on the verge of tears while sharing how much of a difference it made. The CTO’s immediate response: “What KPIs did you use to track that?”

Some of you reading this will think that’s a perfectly fine response, but I know at least a few of you will have the same initial internal reaction I did… “Seriously?” The issue was more with the timing and delivery than the question itself.

In a discovery call with an engineering leader at a different company, we were discussing how to evaluate the impact of a potential Compassionate Coding engagement. I found it so refreshing was that he immediately understood that while there would be short-term benefits reflected in surveys, this kind of deep cultural change requires long-term thinking and often defies simple metrics. He demonstrated this understanding by sharing that his wife, a nurse, often comforts people near the end of their lives. There can be no survey of the deceased afterward to evaluate her “effectiveness” in easing their transition, and yet this is immensely valuable work.

The truth is none of us will be able to fully quantify the impact of our work. The kind encouragement you give to a junior employee may inspire them to pursue a leadership path where they’ll go on to inspire countless others. That won’t necessarily show up in your performance review, but it still matters.

A Mixpanel shirt I wore back in the day when I was still trying to conform to typical tech culture.

Believe me, I understand the obsession with data in tech. Baseless claims can lead to wasted resources. Incorporating data leads to more informed decisions. It may also help mitigate bias. Efforts to measure developer performance, for example, are often presented as an objective alternative to subjective indicators that are more prone to bias. There is merit to that argument. The problem is it that we will never adequately convert messy humans into a series of data points.

As with everything, there’s a balance to strike here. Use data wisely, but never forget the human beings involved. As Greg M. Epstein wrote in a recent Time piece,

“We are not digital beings. We are not chatbots, optimized for achievement and sent to conquer this country and then colonize the stars through infinite data accumulation. We are human beings who care deeply about one another because we care about ourselves. Our very existence, as people capable of loving and being loved, is what makes us worthy of the space we occupy, here in this country, on this planet, and on any other planet we may someday find ourselves inhabiting.”

A Personal Announcement

I’m moving back to the San Francisco Bay Area in January! I’m excited to reconnect with the community up there. If you’re there or ever passing through, let’s chat.

Compassion and Code Around the Web

  • Humans prefer empathy from actual humans, not AI

  • How to recover from compassion fatigue (via Cat Hicks)

  • Kate Gregory’s talk on healthy coding and living at any age

  • Programming style may vary by gender, which is a great reason not to evaluate programmers based on how similar their code choices are to our own

  • Overcoming obstacles to compassion in the workplace (via The Center for Compassionate Leadership)

Happy holidays!
💙 April

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